pressure to sex to teasing, his A-to-Z format is easy to access, and each topic is broken down into manageable sections: an anecdote to illustrate how the topic might come up, a handful of related, at-a-glance facts, “How to Say It” (with exact words for examples), and “How Not to Say It” (again, with exact words to act as guidance). The chapters are short — just a few pages each — so you can dip in and out of this book over the course of years, borrowing just the right words when you need them most.

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